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Should you use ChatGPT to plan your wedding?

ChatGPT is great for wedding planning words and checklists and useless at rooms, headcounts and guest data. Here is where AI helps your plan and where it fails.

  • Couples use AI most for checklists, speeches and wording.
  • Only 5 percent of couples use AI to manage the guest list.
  • Verify any AI answer that has a dollar or a date attached.
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  • Joy is free and earns on the registry items it sells.
  • Altessa is a one-time 80 dollars for Core or 120 for Premium.
  • The Altessa layout builder is Premium only, not part of Core.

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Layout Builder

Draw the room to scale, set the tables and the dance floor, then see who sits where.

  • Joy, Minted, and Riley and Grey list no affiliation with The Knot.
  • Squarespace shares an owner, Permira, with The Knot Worldwide.
  • Honeyfund and MyRegistry are registry specialists, not planners.

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  • At 75 guests, the 20,000 dollar plan came in closer to 22,000.
  • Service charge and tax on catering added 1,300 not in any line.
  • At this size, the next 25 guests cost about 4,000 dollars.

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Budget template

Enter your total and start from a realistic split by category. No signup, no email.

  • Ten thousand dollars fits 40 guests at a nontraditional venue.
  • Food and drink is 4,000, about one hundred dollars a head.
  • A contingency line of 700 absorbs the usual late overage.

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  • A 5,000 dollar wedding is 30 guests at a restaurant dinner.
  • Food and drink are the biggest line, at 2,100 for 30 guests.
  • Photography is the one line not to cut at this size.

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The Case for the 45-Person Wedding

The fastest-growing wedding is the small one. What 45 guests makes affordable, what it makes possible, and who should not do it.

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Timeline generator

Enter your date for a month-by-month plan with every booking window. No signup.

  • Start with zones, then place one well-liked anchor at each table.
  • Rounds of eight are the most forgiving table size.
  • Fill tables to one seat under capacity for late RSVPs.

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  • Venue and catering took 9,200 dollars of the 15,000 dollar plan.
  • The budget went over by 2,025 dollars, about 13 percent.
  • Photography took 3,600 dollars and is the line worth defending.

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  • A fairly normal setup runs roughly 148 dollars per guest.
  • Twenty extra guests add about 3,000 dollars to the budget.
  • Build the guest list in tiers before you attach money to it.

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  • Book the venue first, because it sets the date and capacity.
  • Book the photographer second, since the good ones book out early.
  • Hair and makeup, cake, rentals and transportation come last.

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Layout Builder

Draw the room to scale, set the tables and the dance floor, then see who sits where.

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Three tools you can use without an account, and the guide readers cite most for seating.

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Layout Builder

Draw the room to scale, set the tables and the dance floor, then see who sits where.

Free tool

Budget template

Enter your total and start from a realistic split by category. No signup, no email.

Free tool

Timeline generator

Enter your date for a month-by-month plan with every booking window. No signup.